Of all the forms of courage the ability to laugh is the most

The challenges we are facing in our daily lives makes some days difficult for anything. Laughter is the best part of showing fun time but I also think it is energizing. When you are laughing for fun you feel relaxed and you become happy. Having the courage to laugh after something painful that has happened is just a sign of healing.  It makes the weight of the problem loose and you feel like something has been taken out of your shoulders. Sometimes it can become a crazy hilarious nervous laugh but it gives you the relaxing feeling too. It doesn’t mean that you don’t care about the problem anymore, you might even care a lot, but by laughing you take the stress off your shoulders and are left with only the problem to sort it out.

 Sometimes out of the laugh you can find the solution to sort out the problem, remember those who laugh during hectic times have a way of solving their issues out. The minute anyone realizes good intentions just don't cut it, that it's only actions that make me "me," life is immediately more fulfilling, more challenging, and more fun. The difference between a person who becomes who they want to become, and a person who doesn't, can be found in their willingness to take real steps every day. Laugh as much as you can while you still can.

The statute of limitations has expired on most of our childhood trauma

One of the reasons for the statute of limitations is that people want to get on with their lives and not have legal battles from their past come up unexpectedly.

The statute of limitations has expired on most of our childhood traumas. No matter your past, change is the essence of life. In order to move forward in life we need to learn to live in the present. There are numerous social problems which beset young children and often it sets the tone for the manner in which they will deal with life during adolescence and adulthood. It is important to go about examining this sympathetically, in a way that emphasizes learning but rejects the assumption that even the most awful experiences define our lives forever.

All of us have endured events and losses about which we had no choice. These include the families into which we were born, the way we were treated as children, the deaths and divorces of those close to us. It is not hard to make a case that we have been adversely affected by events and people outside our control. The idea that we have to sit and talk about the problems we face and the things we have tried that have failed imply a slow and unwieldy process that has at its core an uncomfortable assumption: We are responsible for most of what happens to us."

Only bad things happen quickly.

Good things take time; time and process is not the enemy. Virtually all the happiness-producing processes in our lives take time, usually a long time: learning new things, changing old behaviours, building satisfying relationships, raising children. This is why patience and determination are among life’s primary virtues. The best things in life do not happen overnight. They don’t. I have definitely learned recently through my own experiences that “easy come, easy go.” You are very right!!! All the really good things don’t just happen magically in a second.

They come to us more gradually, in beautiful fits and starts, don’t they? Now, I just need to remember this, it’s like arriving into varsity thinking that you’ll graduate and get a proper job that satisfies you and drive your dream car, but it doesn’t happen like that you hustle and hustle and hustle in order to get there. We always dream of having a loving family (loving husband and kids) of which relationships are not easy to manage they are another subjects to learn to.

Good things do take slow. They need to marinate. To breathe like you said, to grow. As I type this I am looking around at all the good things around me that didn’t take overnight to grow. The material things and the career I’m persuading. Some of our desires seem to take much longer than others. They operate on their own timetable. I like to think it is often a test of the Universe to see how much we really want them.

Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid

"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing which you think you cannot do."

 

-Eleanor Roosevelt. This quote speaks about courage. I think it means that if you are willing to be daring and courageous in your acts then you will always find help. Someone will always be willing to assist those who are brave enough to ask for help. It’s kind of like if you’ve got the nerve to be absolute on something then people recognise it and respond to it. If you really want something in life you need to believe in yourself, and always be in the look out of that great thing.the years of completing a Diploma may seem easy but they took one to walk in the mud alone, it depends how fit and determined you are to win make it through success.

If not now, then when?

Someday isn’t better than today, often which someday is never. If you can’t do something right now, make it a point to add to your to do list an action item with a reasonable due date to remind you to do something later rather than not at all. We all make excuses from time to time so the next time you find yourself saying, “Not now,” take a moment and ask yourself the question above. Also ask “Why NOT now?” Let’s be honest, anything worthwhile is difficult, because if it were easy everyone would do it.  What have you been putting off? I am talking about all the things you say you want to do, but put it off for various reasons! If you hope to have something in your life someday, you should be able to have some piece of it in your life today.

There’s always something more practical or expedient I should be working on. But if not now, then when? I don’t have an answer to that question. Like most of life’s worthwhile principles, making the content of today reflect the ambitions of tomorrow is far from easy.The answer to all of life’s problems isn’t to just get started. I think most of us can appreciate that. But when is the “someday” you plan to pursue? And are those ambitions of tomorrow justified by today?

My favourite Cat in the Hat book is [fill in the title]; because

Cat is the worst animal on my favourite’s animals; it scares me to an extent level when I see it. During my childhood when my big brother want me to do something fast he will use cat to scare me so that I can make things quick because I’m scared. My favourite Cat in the Hat book is [fill in the title]; would be the worst boring book ever I won’t even be able to read it. As much as reading as I like reading Novels but if it can talk about cat I’m sorry I would skip the page..There isn’t really interesting thing about a cat.

Why I have conversations?

A good, deep conversation with someone you care for is a gift. For some, these may only happen a few times in a lifetime. For others they are monthly or maybe even weekly realities. If we are honest, most of us are afraid to have these in-depth conversations because of the unknown reaction. Fear holds us back. And yet, by not having the conversations we know we need to have… the thought ways heavy on our hearts. Have conversations to get things off my chest as I tend to over-think things and drive myself a little crazy. Conversations are crucial when support is needed as an external opinion always helps to clear the air. Still not convinced? Look at the bottom thread. When I’m faced with a difficult decision or with a problem that I cannot seem to figure out by myself, I enjoy sharing it with someone in order to get his/her viewpoint on it.